As promised here's the second half of the portraits from the Willcock Family shoot. AND EVEN BETTER, Vicki talks about adoption in her own words, "I’ve always had a soft spot for adoption in my heart. It’s just a good thing. In the years leading up to 2010, adoption seemed to bounce into my thought life frequently. At the time I was maxed out with my three young children and trying my best to keep up with life. So why did adoption keep peeking at me around every corner? Well, I thought, maybe when our kids are grown up we can adopt.
Then I got an itch and started doing what I love to do – roaming around on blogs and looking in bookstores – this time, for information on adoption. I kept coming across families who adopted and were in a similar stage of life: small children, doubting they could add much more to their plates, the absence of a huge bank account, feeling a call from God. My heart began to swell. Maybe this wasn’t so crazy.
I felt like the Lord was opening my heart to desire to give up what I strived for since I became a mom – peace and quiet. J At the time my youngest was one. Oh and I forgot to add that the Lord asked me to home school the previous year. So it was going to get a lot crazier if we added another.
I had seen enough families who were radical and giving up every comfort to help children in need. Some adopting multiple children and those with special needs – and living in houses smaller than ours!
In a story that’s as dramatic and awesome, my husband was given the same heart for orphans. So we started to know that adoption would be in our future (when we had more money and had a better handle on our lives, of course). Then the earthquake in Haiti hit in January 2010 and our hearts about jumped out of our chests. This begged the question: would you adopt any of those children? Of course! Well, if you’d do that why wouldn’t you move forward with adoption otherwise? Doh! After wrestling with the Lord, we said yes.
We were moving forward now. Right away we got an egress window put in our basement to make another bedroom and started our homestudy in February 2010. We started the process of adopting a little girl from Rwanda in March. We were homestudy approved in July of 2010. We were approved by the Rwandan government in August 2011 and we currently wait (not so patiently) for our referral.
We have learned so much about the Lord’s heart for the poor and needy through this process. We have met so many people who are walking our His commandments in radical ways and it challenges us to live more sacrificially, intentionally, and simply.
I want to appeal to a few people right now:
*those whose hearts are beating a little faster right now - I know the feeling
*those who think they don’t have enough money
*those who don’t think they have enough room in their home
*those who are afraid their spouse will never agree to adoption – pray!
*those who feel weak (I promise I have you beat on this one) “But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God.” I Corinthians 1:27-28
*those that feel you’re too old or too young
*those that think your children are too young or that you have enough already
*those who are just scared by the idea
I don’t think everyone should adopt, but I know there are people out there who have similar thoughts as I did and need a boost.
Here’s a list of blogs and online resources – most are ones that moved me personally :
http://thezoefoundation.com/ - Awesome foundation that has many adoption resources
http://weloveourlucy.blogspot.com/ - Blog of a family who adopted the cutest little girl. Watch her coming home video – you have to scroll down a bit. It moved me big time.
http://joiningthejourney.blogspot.com/ - Adoptive mom blogs their journey. Especially touching is their story about Josie who has HIV
http://www.projecthopeful.org/ - Blog advocating for HIV orphans and other waiting children
http://www.christianalliancefororphans.org/ - Christian Alliance for Orphans
http://www.safe-families.org/ - Safe Families – organization that finds temporary homes for children whose families need support for a short time.